The Truth About Honesty – BY: @Courgasm

I don’t have a crack addiction, nor do I have an alcohol dependency. I don’t need to pop a pill to find happiness and you won’t see me on Dr. Drew’s couch unless he has a porn addiction show. I don’t look down upon those who do suffer from addictions of their own. Because hell, I’m addicted to something that could be much more damaging than any abusive substance, no, not the porn. The truth is my addiction. I need it. Its almost like water. I need it in all aspects of my life to truly be happy. So I don’t understand why at times I find myself to be the biggest liar when it comes to being honest with my reflection. Whether it comes down to convincing myself that an outfit looks alright or trying to influence my own state of mind why is it that I only expect honesty from other people but never from myself?

Y’all ain’t my shrinks so let me shift directions.

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Battle of the Sexes – By: @Courgasm and @LeRonCrowd (NSFW)

Ok Good People of Social networking. A lot of people writing blogs. This time We’ve decided to switch it up and do the co-Ed blog, myself and the Beautiful, Voice of the Estrogen society, Hoprah  (the Hood Oprah) Miss @Courgasm. I had some questions for Her that I know only she will answer truthfully, as she will do the same to me. Lets smear these lines of communication people. I hope this sparks up those lines. Feel Free to hashtag #BOTS with your questions so we can answer you on the next addition.

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Just the Three of Us – By: @Courgasm

It’s the tail end of 2011 and people who call themselves adults are still snickering into each other’s ears about business that isn’t their own. I get it. We live in a world where men brush their hearts with sensodyne and women are conducting themselves like they have no morals and when dealing with an apparent change in gender roles I have to expect bullsh*t. But it’s getting unbearable.

 

Let me set up a scenario between Harry, Sally, and Jimmy: I made up these names, then decided to use pictures to illustrate the story. These people just seemed like the best choices.

 

Meet Harry

and

Meet Sally

casually had sex two years ago, it wasn’t serious at all.


is best friends with

Meet…. Jimmy?

 

Jimmy sees Sally talking to a

#GuyHeKnows

 

Ok. I’m killing the illustration. You get it.

Jimmy goes and tells the #GuyHeKnows all of Sally’s business. Not only does Jimmy mention Harry, he mentions anybody else he has heard of in the past 10.7 years of Sally’s life. There are many things wrong with this, but the biggest part is Jimmy ain’t friends with this damn #GuyHeKnows. They speak ever so casually and are merely bonded by mutual friends. Sir, why is it that you decided to take the heavy responsibility of reading Sally’s vaginal inventory off when you yourself aren’t even on that list, nor are you on the queue?

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In The Beginning – @Courgasm

“3 months later you guys are arguing over someone sliding into your DM’s on stealth mode or because ya’ll are still “just f***ing.” -@Courgasm, Some tweet I tweeted some time ago.

What’s up? How was your holiday weekend? Cool story. Welp, besides watching everyone replace Jesus with Jordan’s I went to church, collected gas cards, and dealt with the very real and annoying concept of liking someone new.

Let’s just be real. We’ve all been there. Waking up to that good morning text and your heart skips a beat, having to massage your jaw line from smiling too hard (or whatever “fellations” that happened the night before), counting to three before you hang up, and trying to get that outfit perfectly in between “I put forth effort” and “I didn’t try too hard” for that first date. But who exactly are you sending on that first date? You or your well dressed, well spoken, intellectual and considerate representative?

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Trust Issues – By: @Courgasm

When it comes to heartbreak, trust, and relationships with people you love everybody’s been through something traumatic. Most of us have our guards up. Make no mistake trust issues aren’t strictly between Jody and Yvette. Sh*t that can rock you to your core and have you thinking it’s you against the world can happen within family, within friendships and within your romantic relationships. Yes, in 2012 most of us sitting on the dock of the bay looking out into an endless sea of our emotions.

Boo Hoo, Sad Story. You’re not alone.

So now you’re on tweet deck setting up a column with his timeline and checking his mentions every quarter of an hour while texting him and asking why this chick felt the need to mention his name three times in the last 7 hours. Salty part: he’s not even your boyfriend.

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Ring The Alarm – @Courgasm

 

She gon’ be rockin’ chinchilla coats, if I let you go
Hit in the house off the coast, if I let you go
She gon’ take everything I own, if I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn, if I let you go

She gon’ rock them VVS stones, if I let you go
In the ‘Bach or the Rolls, if I let you go
She gon’ profit everything I taught, if I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn, if I let you go

Ring the alarm, I been through this too long
But I’ll be damned if I see another chick on your arm

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The Elephant in the Room – @Courgasm

“I told you about her when you asked me about it.” “We already had this discussion.”

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No sir. We did not. The thing about women is….we never forget when our men mention other women. Ever. If there is a past relationship, smanging, or love connection specifically discussed about a certain woman, trust and believe it is duly noted in detail and stored in a mental Rolodex that can only be compared to that of an elephants’. Please also be informed that if there is a visual to accompany that memory, we will never forget that face.

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Cordially Yours – @CourGasm

I’m at the point where this sentence annoys me, “If you don’t like me, don’t speak to me.” Though I understand it with every breath in me, I find it juvenile and very indicative of a person’s level of maturity.

If I am in a scenario where there is someone I am not particularly fond of, however we are for whatever reason forced to be in mixed company, I find nothing wrong with being cordial. But that’s the issue isn’t it? People are confusing those who are being cordial with those who are being fake. My opinion? Like most words, people throw the word “fake” around all too often. More importantly here, people throw the word “friend” around even more.

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It’s Not Him It’s You – @Courgasm

Women lack accountability. More over we tend to misplace and misdirect blame that should be directed at ourselves. Prime example: N*gga’s ain’t sh*t. No ma’am. You ain’t sh*t. I’ve never been close-mouthed about my past or my imperfections and I never will be, however, I realize that being an open book will lead people to read me. That’s fine. I’ve made some mistakes and hopefully if just ONE person out there can feel this and take it with them, I’m satisfied. What I tend to see is a very immature look on a person’s own failed relationships that some of the women I love and follow tend to embody.

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